Its hard to say for sure. But unless the girl is really hot like REALLY hot and you're way better than her its hard to get a boner. Also probably less likely in gi since its less sexual. The social dynamics and environment of it means that's less likely to happen anyways. So do gi and dodge the sexy girls i guess
I only have so much time for bjj so i'm laser focussed on playing the game, every single time
honest question: how frequent are boners in BJJ training? how do larger gentlemen even deal with it? that guys 100% hard right?
I don't want to be known as "boner boy" at the gym
Rolling with girls is annoying because either you're going too light, in which case you're a patronizing butthole, or you're going too heavy, in which case you're a bullying butthole.
The chicks in my gym are generally pretty chill but I'd still rather let them roll with each other. If I do roll 'em I lean towards the "too light" side of the spectrum.
Hasn't happened to me yet. Even if it crosses my monkey brain ("hmmm, small soft girl body"), frankly I'm too busy to dwell on it. I've never seen or heard of any of the other guys in the gym getting boners either.
You -should- wear a cup. Pretending that everyone does would require ignoring the entire joke about nogi people not even putting shorts on over their spats.
Lol this clown is misreading signals. Genuine mistakes he's taking for flirting. This is why some guys are creepy and avoided by women. They confuse nervousness with flirtation.
Rolling with girls is annoying because either you're going too light, in which case you're a patronizing butthole, or you're going too heavy, in which case you're a bullying butthole.
The chicks in my gym are generally pretty chill but I'd still rather let them roll with each other. If I do roll 'em I lean towards the "too light" side of the spectrum.
Hasn't happened to me yet. Even if it crosses my monkey brain ("hmmm, small soft girl body"), frankly I'm too busy to dwell on it. I've never seen or heard of any of the other guys in the gym getting boners either.
never. i have rolled with hundreds of girls, maybe thousands, and despite what it looks like, it is the least sexual thing you can think of. Your "fight or flight" nervous system is dominant when you're rolling, not your "sleep and sex" nervous system.
i would say boners are extremely uncommon. most people honestly do not think of sex or feel any kind of sexual anything when training.
You know that unlike stuff like videogames and anime (or even politics and weight lifting) fighting as a whole its lightyears away from internet shit?
Your opinion will never matter because fighters barely use internet (even super "mainstream" youtubers don't matter) you can't meme a idea/opinion until someone believes it, even by raw number of users in this board trying to do that.
back a few years ago there was this couple training, dude jacked and roided to the gills, 200lbs lean, his girl was also fit and hot with a bubble butt, both white belts
they paired me to drill with a guard pass with her and she kept grabbing my dick over and over again with a grin on her face, at the time i thought she was just a stupid white belt and made all my effort to not get hard (i got slightly hard), today looking back to it i wish i allowed my boy to show his power level and that i groped her back
haven't seen neither of them in years
I have always found the Abrahamic relegions' obsession with restricting thw libido to be parochial and counterproductive, but this thread has opened my eyes that I probably did not have a broad enough worldview to assses that correctly.
I like squishing girls so they let out soft moans while they struggle
But the truth is there's utility in rolling with women because they are thin and can squeeze into spaces men can't
And that keeps you honest with your frames, you have to make sure everything is really tight and closed up and those lessons will translate to your rolls against men where you're able to get away with being a little more open
Why would you want to train with a woman? That would be boring. Have you ever grappled with a woman? I'm guessing you haven't. It's a fricking joke most of the time. You have to be careful to not hurt them and the sheer difference in mass and strength is too huge for a serious fight. If you just wanna coom go watch ultimate surrender or one of those erotic fight things.
honest question: how frequent are boners in BJJ training? how do larger gentlemen even deal with it? that guys 100% hard right?
I don't want to be known as "boner boy" at the gym
Its hard to say for sure. But unless the girl is really hot like REALLY hot and you're way better than her its hard to get a boner. Also probably less likely in gi since its less sexual. The social dynamics and environment of it means that's less likely to happen anyways. So do gi and dodge the sexy girls i guess
I only have so much time for bjj so i'm laser focussed on playing the game, every single time
you wear a cup fricking moron macaco white belts
You -should- wear a cup. Pretending that everyone does would require ignoring the entire joke about nogi people not even putting shorts on over their spats.
Lol this clown is misreading signals. Genuine mistakes he's taking for flirting. This is why some guys are creepy and avoided by women. They confuse nervousness with flirtation.
Rolling with girls is annoying because either you're going too light, in which case you're a patronizing butthole, or you're going too heavy, in which case you're a bullying butthole.
The chicks in my gym are generally pretty chill but I'd still rather let them roll with each other. If I do roll 'em I lean towards the "too light" side of the spectrum.
Hasn't happened to me yet. Even if it crosses my monkey brain ("hmmm, small soft girl body"), frankly I'm too busy to dwell on it. I've never seen or heard of any of the other guys in the gym getting boners either.
I usually have a nice relaxing wank in the toilets at work before a BJJ or mma session in order to prevent this scenario from occurring.
>jerking off at work
Bruh
never. i have rolled with hundreds of girls, maybe thousands, and despite what it looks like, it is the least sexual thing you can think of. Your "fight or flight" nervous system is dominant when you're rolling, not your "sleep and sex" nervous system.
i would say boners are extremely uncommon. most people honestly do not think of sex or feel any kind of sexual anything when training.
Sounds like cope to me.
Everyone knows you guys are gays. No use in denying it.
This. Fact that there is someone making pathetic "we're not gay" cope threads puts the final nail in that coffin.
You know that unlike stuff like videogames and anime (or even politics and weight lifting) fighting as a whole its lightyears away from internet shit?
Your opinion will never matter because fighters barely use internet (even super "mainstream" youtubers don't matter) you can't meme a idea/opinion until someone believes it, even by raw number of users in this board trying to do that.
back a few years ago there was this couple training, dude jacked and roided to the gills, 200lbs lean, his girl was also fit and hot with a bubble butt, both white belts
they paired me to drill with a guard pass with her and she kept grabbing my dick over and over again with a grin on her face, at the time i thought she was just a stupid white belt and made all my effort to not get hard (i got slightly hard), today looking back to it i wish i allowed my boy to show his power level and that i groped her back
haven't seen neither of them in years
I have always found the Abrahamic relegions' obsession with restricting thw libido to be parochial and counterproductive, but this thread has opened my eyes that I probably did not have a broad enough worldview to assses that correctly.
I like squishing girls so they let out soft moans while they struggle
But the truth is there's utility in rolling with women because they are thin and can squeeze into spaces men can't
And that keeps you honest with your frames, you have to make sure everything is really tight and closed up and those lessons will translate to your rolls against men where you're able to get away with being a little more open
well make me 200 pounds of pure muscle cause boy do i love wiener
a little more open? for an mmf? Smile
I do get chubby every time I put a girl in an rnc, and she starts gripping my forearms in vain. Otherwise no.
Why would you want to train with a woman? That would be boring. Have you ever grappled with a woman? I'm guessing you haven't. It's a fricking joke most of the time. You have to be careful to not hurt them and the sheer difference in mass and strength is too huge for a serious fight. If you just wanna coom go watch ultimate surrender or one of those erotic fight things.
>he doesn’t roll with lighter (belt -1) belts to catch his breath and work on fun but low% techniques
Ngmi